I Am Therefore I exist

I never thought that by disassociating myself with a person can cause them to ruin. Our being is a powerful force that i have never contemplated. What happened, for me to believe the prior statement?  I had someone live with me , and it became complicated and they left . They had adequate support when they left .However,  I did not know that their main support was me. My being in there presence gave them focus to create. The ability to set goals and complete them,and began to think long term, and the ability to believe in the future. I do not want to be that to someone. It is to powerful. I like power, hell i love it. But truthfully i do not want that kind  of power. The power to allow someone to be because I am me. 

I am Not the Alpha and Omega.

What do I do for her? What do I say to her? How do i explain that no one is flawless?